In addition to the $3.5 million tax credit equivalent (exemption amount) for 2009 (repealed in 2010), there are other exclusions and deductions from federal gift and estate taxes. These are:

In 2009 and 2010 the annual exclusion is $13,000. This can be given without tax consequences to each of an unlimited number of recipients. For example, a father may give each of his four children $13,000 tax-free per year ($52,000). If the mother chooses, she, too, can give each of her children $13,000 per year. In this example, the parents gave away $104,000 per year tax-free. The gifts are not restricted, so anyone may make the $13,000 annual gift to any other person tax-free. Large estate owners, therefore, can consider a program of lifetime giving in order to avoid missing out on significant wealth transfer tax savings.

The 1997 tax law introduced an annual inflation adjustment that increases the exclusion amount by $1,000 each time the annual adjustments add up to $1,000 or more.

Because these gifts are tax-free, they do not count against the estate tax credit equivalent. They require no paperwork and are free of income tax to the recipient. But to qualify, the gift to each recipient must be outright—a present right to spend or use the property—and not a promise of a future benefit. This requirement means that most gifts in trust would not qualify unless special provisions were made.

Gifts of any size to your spouse—lifetime or at death—do not "use up" any of the estate tax credit equivalent and are not included in the tax calculation.

Be careful. Many married couples avoid estate tax planning at an ultimate cost of many tens of thousands of dollars because they fail to take advantage of both of their unified credits. Most couples use the unlimited marital deduction to avoid estate tax on the first death. This leaves the whole estate to the survivor, and the estate often exceeds the unified credit equivalent amount. Furthermore, the estate continues to grow.

With a little planning, they could avoid unnecessary estate taxes by dividing their joint estate so each spouse takes advantage of their credits, and by using the marital deduction for assets that exceed the amount that can be sheltered by each spouse’s estate tax credit. However, they can use a qualified professional to help do the math and to recommend appropriate estate planning tools.

Payments must be made directly to the institution, not just earmarked for this use, and given to the beneficiary.

The IRS has a list of qualified charities.

The law makes possible a number of ways to lessen the gift and estate tax burden. Some are very simple; others are more complex and may require the help of a qualified professional to implement.