Many people engage attorneys to help articulate and implement your plans, including the drafting of appropriate documents. In almost all cases, it is a good idea at least to consult with a lawyer at some point, even if only to review the plan and documents you might have prepared for yourself to be sure they comply with the laws of the state in which you live.

Most people do not know exactly how to put into legal effect the general desires that seem so very clear and uncomplicated in their own minds. Often, when laymen draft legal documents, they employ language that may indeed be clear to them but is ambiguous to others. Unfortunately, people tend to ignore (or be unaware of) limitations in their knowledge, and make financial and estate planning decisions in spite of it. Experience shows that many bitter moments occur in the probate courtroom among members of the same family engaged in a battle that could have been avoided with a little help.

This is not to say that all "do-it-yourselfers" are doomed to failure, especially if their situations are truly uncomplicated. Often, however, they fail to consider better options, tax pitfalls, related issues, etc. This, as opposed to total disaster, is the more likely danger to the "do-it-yourselfer," and the consequences vary from barely significant to very much so.

Will and trust preparation software can, in many but by no means all situations, produce quite adequate results. This type of software, however, often does not fully deal with particular details, contingencies, and very specific issues that may be important to a given family. If your circumstances have any kind of "twist" to them—and most people's do—there is no good substitute for individualized, professional guidance. Some people use will or trust software just to learn what these documents look like and to "get something on paper" before consulting a lawyer. This is an excellent idea, and these products offer quite a few educational tips and help screens.

The person who makes the estate plan is never there to see how well it works. Everything that can be done needs to be done—correctly—before death. While an attorney is not absolutely required for a good result in every case, using one is the best way to ensure that your plan is the very best possible for your circumstances.